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Old 05-04-2005, 09:53 AM   #14 (permalink)
Meditrina
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Originally Posted by maleficent
I'm going to take the opposite opinion...

Your birthday is important to you... you want him to remember.. you will be annoyed/hurt/insert the adjective if he doesn't remember... You might even decide to guilt him if he doesn't remember or punish him in some way...

That's way too much freakin effort... if you expect something TELL HIM...

Good points Mal. Which would make me feel worse? Him forgetting or him getting me things because I reminded him? I do believe him forgetting will be the worser of two evils. I am trying to repair my marriage, not do things to make it worse. I just asked him if he was planning on taking the kids to the store this week. Let's see what he says.

He says he was planning on taking the kids this friday for cards. Big sigh of relief. I am actually glad I asked him.
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