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Originally Posted by StanT
I don't like dealing with needy people, therefore I don't like being needed.
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I agree with this. I've found that when I go out of my way to help someone they begin to expect this kind of behavior from me and because I can never find a good reason for saying "no" to their requests,and so I end up becoming their doormat. What bothers me most is that when you help someone who "needs" something, many times they feel no desire to help you in return.
I'd much rather live in the woods by myself, content in self-sufficiency.