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Would you remind your spouse/SO?
My birthday falls the day before Mother's day this year. I really want my spouse to remember both days on his own. I did order my own birthday present because he told me to. As far as I know he has not gotten cards or a Mother's Day present for me. I know it is not about the gift itself, it is the thought that counts. What I am worried about is that the thought is not there. I cannot tell you how many times he says "OH I forgot" if I don't remind him to do something.
Would you remind your spouse/SO that your birthday and Mother's Day is coming? Or wait to see if they will remember on their own? I think it would be more meaningful if he remembered on his own, but how depressing if he does not.
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