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well of course everyone is going to have preconceived notions about people when they meet them for the first time. What is important is being able to break those notions quickly when the person in question is able to demonstrate ability contrary to the notion.
I fully admit that i use the preconceived notions. For instance, when first meeting a new asian student on campus here, I make a point to speak very politely and clearly to that person. As I have learned, if that person IS from a foreign country, it makes everything easier. However, a fair portion of the time, they end up being from New York or somewhere else decidedly american. So what? Is there any sure fire way to distinguish a foreigner from an american on first notice? NO. Err on the side of caution at first? Sure. Be flexible? Definitely!
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