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What it sounds like she's got is a co-dependent relationship and she doesn't want to let it go, and by her calling you all the time, and unloading on you, she is sucking you into this relationship.
You can't really help her, she has to help herself. Do some googling on codependency, there's tons of information out there, and i'd bet one or two hunder online support groups.
She has to put her foot down, and say to him no more. How many times does she call you filling you in on the antics of this fellow? That's gotta stop to, you are making it too easy for her to not break away from it.
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