Sorry Annie, gotta agree with Mal here. Even the part about "when it's good..." sounds a little obsessive to me. And the grilling for names is a bit weird (now you know why I guess - he's a little unbalanced on the issue). I think your guy has emotional issues and it's starting to look like a forest of red flags to me.
I too am considerably older than you, and have had a lot of partners...my boyfriend now reaps the benefits of my experience, both in terms of sexual ability and ability to maintain a relationship. And he appreciates that! I'm not saying I'm so great - that's not the point. It's just that an adult man is going to be with adult women, who are generally not inexperienced sheltered little things, and it's one thing he has to get used to and see the positive side.
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