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Originally Posted by Martel
On the other side of this issue, I know it can be a tough thing for a guy to deal with.
When a guy thinks about "other men who have had sex with my gf/wife/whatever in the past", our brains generally lock up at "other men who have had sex with my gf/wife/whatever" and don't get to the "in the past" part. It can be tough to separate it out. We know that the past is the past, and generally speaking try really hard not to let it bother us. I can't really speak for this particular dude, it sounds like you two have a lot of other things going on too if you're looking for ways to "get" him, thinking that the "backlash will be worth it".
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i meant of course had he started calling me slut, person with no morals, meatwould i use that particular cunning phrase. because i don't believe it is 'getting' him, but sincerely drawing logic up on the debate. im curious to why all the double standards, of course that is a whole other can of worms. if i can respect the fact that he has slept ladies in the past, and most likely in future, then he has an right to ME as a human and a mate to respect me. not because its an obligation, but because he wants to.