Your past is your past and it should be left alone. You didn't know him while you were with these other people and he shouldn't hold any of those actions against you. It's really him that has a problem here, not you. We all do things when we are younger only to move on later and realise that we've made mistakes, whether you have 1 or 10 previous partners, that is really YOUR business and should be left behind, as long as you are with him now and isn't seeing any of these people behind his back, he should learn to accept it and move forward. Try having a talk with him, tell him how you feel and how hurt you are that he is judging you by something that happened before you met him, everyone has a past, and it isn't fair that he can now lose respect for you because of something you did before even knowing him. Good luck with this.
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