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This is a lot like the other thread going on, "in a relationship", which is about insecurity when your partner finds someone else attractive. I think the issue here is possession. He doesn't feel like you are entirely "his" because other guys can look at you and remember 'boinking' you, as you put it. He also fears you will cheat. (OOC, did you ever cheat? Or did you simply move from partner to partner quickly?)
This kind of insecurity is really hard for you to deal with because he will get defensive. Any suggestion that his insecurity is wrong just makes him feel more insecure. Any change is going to have to come from within himself. Unfortunately, it might take something serious for him to realize he's in the wrong here, being so possessive of you. You may need to flat-out tell him that you are not HIS piece of meat, and this is caveman behavior, and you will not allow him to insult you this way.
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