I think it would be important for you to say something like "I respect and even encourage you finding other people attractive, but hearing it makes me feel insecure." Or something like that. Make her understand you're not trying to change her thinking, but that hearing her comment on other guys makes you uncomfortable.
Keep in mind that she is with you for a reason, though.
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