I agree w/abaya - learn who you are first. People will always come and go, but you are stuck w/yourself until the end. I really learned about this in the military. People that you think are great friends move, get transferred, whatever. Always say we'll keep in touch. Doesn't happen - people are just too friggin' busy these days. So they move on; you move on. It's a part of life. Learn to be happy w/just you. Take the time w/others as a bonus. Makes life that much more fun.
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