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Originally Posted by veruca
I think I would be frightened at having a wedding that big...it is terrible what she did..but we don't KNOW her..what if sh is depressed or bi-polar and just couldn't handle it. It certainly is no excuse for what she did..but only a reason as to why he would still want to marry her
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Now your making excuses for the dumb bitch.
Sorry to be harsh, it's not usually my methodology of thought and speech.
The problem here is you are slowley excusing her behavior. Depression, Bi-Polar, etc. Those are not accepatable explanations of "Why" she did this.
I don't care how frightened she was, her selfish, attention whore behavior disrupted the lives of many, and she needs to be aware of that through painfull public judgement. If that drives her to depression, I don't care.
He loves her. Alot obviously. But there are a few problems on the table now. He was a "person of interest". That feeling of hurt and betrayal is not going to go away. This is a very bad long term problem, becuase her actions since turning up in AZ show that the last though on her mind was what she put him through.
Again, I am sorry to be so uncharateristicly harsh, but what her actions caused for her family and especially her future husband only reinforces the problem;s our society currently has on many levels.
On a side note, I'm sorry to see how this discusssion has split down gender lines (I'm looking at your "That would be enough to make anyone want to turn tail and run..." statment too Mal)