Redlemon, sorry for overlapping with your post, as I confess I didn't do a search beforehand. But I'm glad you told us about it, since it was interesting to compare responses. I agree that folks have been more positive this time around, but that it hasn't produced many more responses. I do wonder if it comes down to the "raging heterosexuality" that was mentioned in that thread... moreso on the men's part than the women's. Or do we really just not attract many gay men period because of the hetero/bi-women slant of this forum? (do they come, look around, then leave, as you suggested?)
Damn I just wish we could get some responses from gay individuals to help us understand what's going on, so we can fix it... I suppose I shouldn't put pressure on, but there is a serious lack of representation on the boards that needs changin'.
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