I, uh, have experienced the OPPOSITE.
Big, red, warning signs in my mind's eye (seriously, could see them!). Couldn't figure it out since he was "just such a nice guy!"
Oh, boy...he was sooo not a nice guy. So as not to be a downer, I will say that we have parted ways (fortunately, never married).
Carry on! I'm hoping to "breath the air," so to speak, and maybe some of your eternal love at first sight will carry on over to me.
Can I touch any of you? Huh? Huh???
(OK, I'll go away now lol)