My children rarely receive rewards. Why would I reward them for something they're "supposed" to do in the first place??? Does someone give me an allowance for making my bed? Washing my own dishes??? They get some sort of a reward for the "above and beyond" things they do. My ex-wife practices the "let them do what they want" style of parenting. It failed miserably for both children when they lived with her. They have zero respect for her. Since the younger has lived with me, his behavior has improved dramatically.
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