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I would definitely start at the very beginning. There is something really thrilling about the first few interactions. The progressive flirting is a big part of that, not to mention the thrill you always get with the first kiss or, as abaya pointed out, the first time you confess your mutual feelings. Also, the beginning always has a boundless sort of energy that is unique and incredible, I wouldn't ever want to pass that up. (This isn't to say that more developed relationships can't produce the same feeling, but relationships that work out that well are fairly rare) Finally, pre-sexual relationships have a sort of emotional clarity that doesn't last too long after you get in bed. The possible benefits from a relationship that has gone deep enough to reach the sexual level are tremendous, but so are the risks. The beginning is much more carefree, plus jumping in at the middle or end pretty much precludes you from understanding the emotional depth and importnace of the actions you are taking, that could never be a good thing.
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