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Ya, you're crazy. Great avatar btw.
On a serious note I'm in a somewhat unusual relationship myself. I met my girl while I was studying abroad in Russia. She was actually engaged at the time but when we first saw each other on a 'field trip' (she studied in the same department) it was obvious (whatever that means, and no i don't really know) right away. So it came to sex very quickly. I often wonder if it would help (things are still great besides the current 10000 miles of sepration) to ahve had some platonic time before sex. Having those kind of conversations now is quite interesting.
On the other had, my only other 'serious' relationship went on for abour a year with nothing more than interminable tops off makeout session. And that sucks, really bad. Especially when you're a young man, nothing is worse than blue balls and a girl that's cold as ice when it comes to anything that feels good (for either party)
I imagine I'll just have to play this one out, but as it goes now everything seems to work.
So your question, where do you start. I think you just gotta roll with the bunches, take what you're given and steal the rest. It depends on both people the situation, the time of life. I don't really think there is a best way to start a relationship. (unless it's just meant to be about casual sex, then well, that's obvious.)
Good question though
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