Am I the only one that wishes I had Ben's phone number so I could call him and check up on him?!?!
We haven't heard from him for 13 days now!
Ben,
Keep breathing.
Keep your wits about you as best you can.
Don't burn any bridges and don't flatly reject any offer during "bargaining".
Prepare for EVERY eventuality - you can prepare for separation and reconciliation at the same time.
She had what is called an "exit" affair. In her mind, her marriage was already over, so what difference does it make what she does. If you choose to attempt to reconcile, be sure to remember that because it is very different than other forms of affairs. It speaks volumes about communication, perceptions, and trust.
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Gives a man a halo, does mead.
"Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."
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