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Originally Posted by Astrocloud
Yes, as a matter of fact it happened to me recently. There was this woman walking in front of me on a dark street. She seemed a little nervous that I was walking behind her so I gave her my friendliest "howdy-do!". Then she stopped and talked to me and asked me where I was going. She was older and very townie and not my type.
I deliberately said that I was going to a bar that I thought she wouldn't like. She followed me in anyways. Over the course of a few drinks she propositioned me many times. I tried in vain to find a nice way of saying that I wasn't interested. She rubbed my leg and touched me innapropriately. She wasn't getting the message so I told her that there was no "nice way" of putting it but she was just not my type and that she should get over it. Then she got mad at me.
Several people online and in my personal life asked me why I just didn't go for it. After all it's been over a year since I've had sex... But the fact is that I don't want to risk an STD for someone that I really don't care about -that I'd never see again ect.
And Quite frankly, I'm not that desperate. And no she wasn't ugly or fat per se. She just wasn't someone I would be interested in.
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I look forward to the day when I attain your degree of self-control and serenity. This is one reason I'm seriously considering going full-blown celibate while I'm in grad school. This way I hope I'll learn to find contentment with myself without the pressure of having to be in a relationship to be happy, and hopefully I'll learn not to be so desperate for sex.