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Sex is a thermometer but not all important. Hubby and I have had our ups and downs and there were times when neither one of us wanted sex because of our other problems. BUT cheating on someone involves much more than the sex. There's the lying and taking time, emotion, and effort away from the marriage. Now hubby and I have an open marriage so when we have sex with other's there is no lying and we are forced to devote MORE time to the emotional part of our marriage to preserve things as they were. We're not taking anything away and we're fostering greater trust. Cheating isn't the problem really, it's the lack of trust that results from it.
Yes there are worse things that humans can do to each other whether they're married or not but in a normal marriage the matter of trust is vital to the life of the marriage.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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