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Originally Posted by Rudel73
I've apoligized to her a million times, told her i was wrong, i am the one person she has always been able to trust and have completely messed up twice in the past week or so...told her if she can find it in her heart to trust me again in the future i would love her forever.....Anyways she called me at work and came in and visited me for a while and seemed ok for the time being...Tomorrow im spending most of the day with her im sure things will be back to normal in due time. Thanks for your advice guys, i'm goin to surprise her with flowers and a poem tomorrow she loves it when i do that!
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Personally, I don't think you have anything to apologize for, and it's much worse that she forces you to grovel so you can get back in to your graces. You know why? Because a friend hitting on your girl *isn't* cool, and you have every right to tell him that, in my opinion. I think you should also think about how word got back to her that you "dared" to call him out, even half-jokingly. She must have asked him. Because she doesn't trust her man...and she doesn't trust you because she doesn't trust herself, and that's textbook behavior for someone who is either open to cheating on you or has already done so.
I won't lie--I'm making educated guesses. But these guesses are based on hard-won experience. It just doesn't make any sense that she would tell you a friend of yours hit on her--then demand that you don't tell anyone or mention it to him. It doesn't sound like he's some kind of dangerous person, so it's not like she's afraid for herself. Like another poster in this thread said, I think she just likes the attention, more than she cares about how you feel. Don't let this girl own you, man. I don't care how pretty she is, or how nice she treats you otherwise. That just ain't right, and she needs to know. If she can't respect this, then she just might not be worth the trouble.