I agree that randomness is good. Especially random creative acts that show how much you were thinking ahead and planning... to me that speaks a thousand "I love you's," when it happens.
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Originally Posted by Seige
but the best way to make a gurl feel loved is not by telling her, but by showing her (or at least in my limited experience, this is the case)
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Hmm I dunno, not telling her at all? I think a balance between telling AND showing is the best way. Like Cellophane said, being vocal about it (even just once a day or every other day) takes a lot of the guesswork out of it, for those of us who enjoy expressing and hearing expressions regularly. But I know that's a foreign mindset for those who prefer to not say it often... this is the issue I am struggling with. Different love languages...