Just make sure he doesn't get TOO kind toward spiders. I love all kinds of animals. They all love me too (had some turtles and they'd all just stretch out on my chest when I laid down to watch TV). I'll pick them up and stuff and try to rescue them if they are in danger of getting stepped on too. I AM, however, a bit nervous toward spiders. Spiders can be venomous and I'm not smart enuff to tell which ones might be dangerous so I don't pick them up. I always get something for them to walk on like a cup or paper and quickly transport them to the nearest tree, buch, flowerbed, etc.
Anyways, just make sure he knows about the dangers of spiders. Spiders are good to have around tho too. They catch other insects like mosquittoes. I hate those things. Just don't teach him to step on them and other insects as insects play a vital part of the circle of life and the ecosystem. I hate it when ppl kill insects that pose no harm or could be caught and placed in a safer environment. I always think of God's finger coming down on the person just like the person did to the poor insect.
So teach him that most insects won't harm him and also teach him to stay away from spiders since, even tho some are harmless, others ARE harmful. And don't teach him to kill the insects.
- Undercover_Man