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My only question is - does a wife have no responsibility to sexually contribute to a marraige?
In my opinion if a married woman thinks that going for a year without sex is "OK" then she cares very little about her marraige or she's a complete idiot. I mean say the original poster does go to his wife and confess his affair - do you think the wife would be thinking "what reason did you have to cheat?" or do you think she would think to herself "maybe I should have given it to him twice a year"? Then after the divorce happens I guarantee that the woman (unless she's a complete narcisist) would partially blame herself for the affair.
Life is very complicated and very grey. In the end - who's the bad guy? The answer is there is no bad guy just bad choices.
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