Although I am not married, I am in a serious relationship and can honestly say that id she ever cheated on me, it would be over. Period. The fidelity issue is not always about sex. For me, it is a trust issue. If someone cheats on me, I can't trust them, and if I can't trust them, I can not have any sort of meaningful relationship with them. And it is like ratbastid says, a lot of the issues show up in the bedroom first, because it is a more vulnerable position. Hard to hide guilt using your genitals...
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I like my women like I like my coffee... in a sack tied to the back of a donkey
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