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Here's the thing: emotional issues in relationships often show up first in the bedroom. And then, people often think that the the sex issue is the problem. If you look at this forum, it's full of people asking for sex advice, and when the scratch just below the surface, there are emotional issues, trust issues, communication issues, etc that are really what's going on. Infidelity doesn't just happen. It's an expression of stuff that's already happening in the relationship.
Is sex the most important thing? Of course not. But it's often a red flag for what's really going on.
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