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In a perfect world, a descision of the magnitude should be made by concensus. We, unfortunately do not live in that world. That said, the woman will always hold the trump card here, as it is she that carries the risks, and the true responsibility of the childs health within her. Perhaps this will help shed light :
How would the men here feel if a woman you were involved with, TOLD you to to get a vascectomy. It is your body, yet she demands you undergo surgery that will prevent you from ever having a child.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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