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K-Wise · 04-26-2005, 02:37 AM

I'm with some of the other people in this thread. I think she's fucking with you man. Honestly I've known some pretty unreasonable women before but for her to blow off the handle over something this stupid makes it seem like she's either playing a game with you, testing you, or creating a reason to fight with you that she may use as an excuse to dump you later.

That is ridiculous. You have more reason to be mad at her than she has to be mad at you. You need to let her know that and that you won't put up with that shit. Thats obviously something she HAD to know you wouldn't be able to keep quiet about and there is no GOOD explanation as to why she wanted you to. Try and think of one. She obviously wasn't worried about your friendship (If there ever was a real one..I mean he asked YOUR g/f out. The fact you did nothing about it shows him you have no guts.) with him or she wouldn't have told you so thats out. Sounds more like she's trying to protect something between them. You should ask her why she didn't want you to tell him and tell us what she says. If it's bullshit we'll read right through it.

You need to let her know that other people asking her out knowing you're investing your time in her is not and will not ever be cool and you will always have something to say about it. Be a man. Even if you didn't break her trust you should let her know that. There are some things I can see as a real secret...things that can hurt others, private things, emotional things, etc. but that is not one of them.

If you really care about her yes..apologize to give her some satisfaction but she owes you an apology too or at least an explanation for her behaviour.

Good luck and yes..definitely keep your eyes open.

Asta!!

04-26-2005, 02:37 AM	#28 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	I'm with some of the other people in this thread. I think she's fucking with you man. Honestly I've known some pretty unreasonable women before but for her to blow off the handle over something this stupid makes it seem like she's either playing a game with you, testing you, or creating a reason to fight with you that she may use as an excuse to dump you later. That is ridiculous. You have more reason to be mad at her than she has to be mad at you. You need to let her know that and that you won't put up with that shit. Thats obviously something she HAD to know you wouldn't be able to keep quiet about and there is no GOOD explanation as to why she wanted you to. Try and think of one. She obviously wasn't worried about your friendship (If there ever was a real one..I mean he asked YOUR g/f out. The fact you did nothing about it shows him you have no guts.) with him or she wouldn't have told you so thats out. Sounds more like she's trying to protect something between them. You should ask her why she didn't want you to tell him and tell us what she says. If it's bullshit we'll read right through it. You need to let her know that other people asking her out knowing you're investing your time in her is not and will not ever be cool and you will always have something to say about it. Be a man. Even if you didn't break her trust you should let her know that. There are some things I can see as a real secret...things that can hurt others, private things, emotional things, etc. but that is not one of them. If you really care about her yes..apologize to give her some satisfaction but she owes you an apology too or at least an explanation for her behaviour. Good luck and yes..definitely keep your eyes open. Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!