I have to say again that children are a logical and foreseeable consequence of having hetero sex. If guys don't want to deal with the inherent risk, they have the responsibility of cutting off the flow of sperm, however they choose to. No man can say that job is someone else's responsibility.
You can apply any number of different standards and talk about "equality", but the biological facts are there for everyone and anyone to see. Once the life is "born" inside the body of the woman, the pregnancy is inside her body and is hers. The man has played his part in the conception, and the rest of the story is about his willingness to face his responsibilities. (Lord knows how many men duck that responsibility (fatherhood), monetarily and otherwise.) What is the alternative? Making the child pay for the bad judgement of the parents? Fuck that.
Men's choices about pregnancy end sooner than a women's, but that's the way it is, and it's no surprise. As men, we still have complete control where our sperm goes. Men, we simply need to act that way.
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