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slimsam1 · 04-22-2005, 10:12 PM

Why weren't you man enough to stand up for yourself?

You say, "...and she wonders why i confronted him!??" yet you also apologize to her for what you did? I personally see nothing wrong with what you said to the guy, and I don't think it's healthy for you to let this girl dictate so much about how you act or what you say to others. Betrayal of trust? More like disobedience -- but an adult (grown kid?) shouldn't have to 'obey' someone else anyway.

By the way, if you grovel at her feet every time you make (what you see as...) a mistake, then I promise that eventually she will think you're too obsessed with her and get tired of it... and where does that leave you?

04-22-2005, 10:12 PM	#15 (permalink)
slimsam1 Crazy	Why weren't you man enough to stand up for yourself? You say, "...and she wonders why i confronted him!??" yet you also apologize to her for what you did? I personally see nothing wrong with what you said to the guy, and I don't think it's healthy for you to let this girl dictate so much about how you act or what you say to others. Betrayal of trust? More like disobedience -- but an adult (grown kid?) shouldn't have to 'obey' someone else anyway. By the way, if you grovel at her feet every time you make (what you see as...) a mistake, then I promise that eventually she will think you're too obsessed with her and get tired of it... and where does that leave you? Last edited by slimsam1; 04-22-2005 at 10:15 PM..