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Originally Posted by little_tippler
I think your girlfriend is feeling sorry for herself and making excuses. She wants to loose weight, but is talking herself out of it. If she doesn't have the energy, it's probably because she isn't more active.
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I completely agree. People much rather eat their excuses than swallow the facts about how they came to be a certain way.
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Originally Posted by little_tippler
As for you broaching the subject with her...try to bring it up in a camouflaged manner, like when she mentions exercise or food, whatever. Just never be blunt about it. Maybe if you go with her it'll give her the incentive she needs, company is great for distracting you from how self-conscious you might feel to start with.
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I have been with a few girls who constantly complain about their weight and size, but this person doesn't seem to be one. But if does get to that point, you really don't have a choice. One of my rather more honest ex's said to me 'if I ever start to add weight, just tell me. I may get angry at you for a while, but in the end I'll appreciate it and I'll look better.' So that's pretty much my philosophy, but that may not work with everyone.