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Originally Posted by StanT
OK,
I need to qualify my previous answer. I did snoop on my daughters when they were teenagers, but I was very up front about doing it. I installed parental control software and logging software on the computer and demonstrated that I could find out everything they did. Our telephone billing was also set up to log all calls. While I rarely looked at the logs, I think knowing that dad could check up on them kept them out of trouble.
Is it snooping if you tell them you are doing it?
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Heisenberg's uncertainty principle used as a parenting technique. I love it.
And no, it's not snooping if the person being observed knows they're being observed.
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Originally Posted by Shanifaye
I do not EVER read Dave's emails or any documents he has on his computer, even though we share it. If he has something he wants me to read I make him open it and show it to me. The only time I open mail with his name is if it has my name on it also.
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Grace and I do things the same way. I share things with her, and I trust that she'll share anything I need to know with me. Our relationship wouldn't work without that trust.
Gilda
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Last edited by Gilda; 04-21-2005 at 08:01 AM..
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