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Originally Posted by kutulu
If he was that guy he wouldn't say this:
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What happened? U were going to call me before you got outta work? or maybe comeover to chill? I will forgive you. Well, I just feel that now that you and your boy are fine now. You wont be moving out and all? I mean that's great if you 2 are fine. I just don't want to be chasing something that I will get to do. As in like ya know! I don't want to look like a jackass for trying to hook up with you.
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For sure.
I'm sure it's been discussed between them.
What's probably happened is that the guy truly does like her, and after being the one she talks to a lot (one reason for her friends saying that they are 'going out') he's obviously felt the need to express his feelings for her.
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I just don't want to be chasing something that I will (not ?) get to do. As in like ya know!... I just wanted to know what you feel and what you would like to do? I hope I am making sence with this.
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I think the guy is aware that he's the 'other man' and doesn't want the guilt of being a cause of a breakup, but it still doesn't stop him from telling her that he's an option.
That, and her questions about where you are heading in the relationship makes it sound like she's either had a small flirt/kiss thing going with the guy or she's on the edge of being unfaithful.
Take stock.
Where ARE you heading with her?
How would you feel without her?
How would she handle the invasion of privacy? The confrontation may just drive her towards the guy after she realises it's out in the open.
Personally, I'd ask her about Chris, saying only that you had been told they were close.
For your own sake, keep your cards close to your chest.