^^ I very much second Anomaly's statement. Usually those who believe they are doing okay without therapy are those who would benefit the most from it. It sounds like you have some serious patterns that need an outside, objective opinion... and really, the only thing to be lost is one's pride (if that's what's holding you back, which is what holds most people back). Please, do yourself and your relationships (now and in the future) a favor and give counseling a try... take it from someone who overthinks EVERYTHING.
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