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I would ask her "exactly what is your relationship with Chris?" When she answers "oh we're friends" I'd ask her "are you friends that have sex, are you friends that are dating, what do you mean by friends?" I would NOT hide the fact that I know about the emails (being secretive about your activities is exactly the same as her hiding her activities from you)and then if she says she's been cheating on you I would leave her, if she claims she hasn't then I would ask her why she would choose to remain friends with a guy who's goal is to break up her relationship. I'd explain to her how I felt, why I'm feeling insecure, and ask her to please take your feelings into consideration. You need to talk with her about this like mature adults, fighting about it will get you nowhere. As far as kicking his ass, that will get you 2 things: 1. an opportunity to experience the criminal justice system first hand (being charged with assault) 2. a probation officer after you get out of jail. It's just not worth it.
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