F-18_Driver

I can't imagine that she's not cheating. I also notice that you pay the mortgage, and she's either unemployed or underemployed. Nice work if you (she) can get it. You can rest assured she won't want to move out unless she's got somebody lined up to provide a place for her to live.

Personally, I think if you "commit" to this girl, you should be committED.

I also side with you in regard to taking your time. I've actually gone out on a first date and been told (during the salad) that we shouldn't keep seeing each other if I wasn't "serious." This was followed by some moderately intense questioning about the work I do.

I'll dispense with all of the blowjob jokes and simply say that I've seen women (and men, to be fair) that could disguise their true personality for extended periods. Based on my experience, I'd consider two years an absolute MINIMUM requirement in terms of getting to know the other person.

In a community property state, she would have a strong claim to half the profit of the house if you sold it while married. I'm sure that had NOTHING to do with her accelerated timetable, though.

It's always the one without assets who pushes for a "commitment" as soon as possible. Just mention a pre-nup and see what kind of reaction you get.

I'd advise having riot gear handy.