Is she cheating? Who knows. Maybe. You should talk about that.
In the meantime, here's something that might be behind the trouble:
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Originally Posted by intecel
I told her that I want my life completely in order before that step happens.
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Lord, what a cop-out that is! Has your life EVER been completely in order? Do you actually have ANY hope that it EVER will be? I know mine hasn't, and I don't. That's just not how life goes!
What you've said here is, "There's absolutely not a flaming chance in hell I'll ever get married... but I want it to look like I'm not totally closed off about that."
And then she said she was okay with that--she basically bought your BS that someday you might get married. And now you're upset that she's on a different page than you? Pretty hypocritical, dude.