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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
I honestly cant make heads or tails out of those emails....but I will ask you this...you've been with this girl 2 years but yet thats not long enuff for a ring? How long do you think you should be with someone before you can "commit". Why would you be with someone two years that you had no intention of commiting yourself too? and finally, why should you expect someone that you've been with for two years, who knows you dont want to commit to think you actually ever will?
I dont understand that, its a totally foriegn concept to hear someone say (paraphrased as the way I see what you're saying)....we've ONLY been together a little over two years, I havent considered major commitment yet cause its not long enuff but yet I know this is what she wants and I continue to ignore it.
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She came into this relationship knowing that I do not plan on getting married, basically indefinitely. I told her that I want my life completely in order before that step happens. I was in my last relationship for 5 years and this was never a problem, and in this relationship, she says she understood and would wait for me to be ready.
All my friends who have been married are currently divorced. Not a single couple has stayed together. My parents are divorced, same with most people I know.
It's more of a headache than anything and I want to make sure that everything is 100% before I move into that step.