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I think my girlfriend is cheating on me... I think this has been going on for some time now, but I don't have concrete evidence yet. This is pretty close, but it's not 100%. Tell me what you would think by what I'm about to explain and the emails I found below.

I've been living with my girlfriend for about 2 years now.

December '04, I went to her work's Christmas party with her. A couple girls had just come in that she works with and asked her a question about this guy Chris that she works with. She said something along the lines of "How would I know" and their response was "Well, you're dating him, so you should know".

Mind you, this is before I was even introduced to them as her boyfriend and they didn't even know I would be there (I wasn't planning on going from the start). After they realized I was there with her, they were like "Oh we're just kidding" and she says that they were just messing with me. I didn't know what to think at this point, but have been suspicious ever since.

Now, in the past month or two, she has been acting a little strange. She has asked me a couple times if I really love her and started some fights about nothing. She's also told me that she wants to know where the relationship is going and that she wants a ring eventually (which I'm not even considering yet as we've been together only a little over 2 years).

So last week, Wednesday, I'm searching for something i found on MSN's search. I end up coming across an email from Chris to her. Seems somewhat harmless until I got nosy and found another one. This guy is pretty illiterate, so I can't decide what all of it means.

Let me know what yall think:

Here's the first email on Tuesday:
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Subject : please come and see me!

hey babe

Well, I am about to get my wisdom teeth out in 1 hour from now 8:00 a.m. I hope I can see u very soon. Call me whenever you get a chance. Buh bye girl!


Chris
oxoxo

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Here is the second email on Wednesday:
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What happened? U were going to call me before you got outta work? or maybe comeover to chill? I will forgive you. Well, I just feel that now that you and your boy are fine now. You wont be moving out and all? I mean that's great if you 2 are fine. I just don't want to be chasing something that I will get to do. As in like ya know! I don't want to look like a jackass for trying to hook up with you. I just wanted to know what you feel and what you would like to do? I hope I am making sence with this.

Chris

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She replied to this message with: I will try to come over on Friday since I am not working until 3.
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That friday, she left the house at around 8:30 AM to pay my mortgage payment and didn't get back home until about Noon. I asked what she was doing and she said she went to her second job to quit, but they convinced her to stay. She only worked Sundays at this job, and yesterday she came home about 3 hours after leaving for work saying that they fired her (which she didn't want that job anyways).

Then before she went to work the other day, she left a conversation on the screen with this message. It doesn't bug me, but I'm wondering if she's talking about the guy Chris that's been emailing her:

"lol i dont know any hot guys! well other than dave and the guys i work with"

She has never told me once that she has hung out with this guy Chris, or brought up his name in a conversion EVER. From these emails it looks like she's been hanging out with him. Where he asks her if she was going to come over to chill, by that, I almost know that she knows where he lives or has been over to his house.

Do I have the right to be suspicious now? I think I do.... What do yall think? I'm going to confront her in the next couple days about this and just have the emails on the screen and tell her to explain.