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deserves it???? what would make her or anyone deserve to get slapped or hit? are we talking the woman talks sassy to her man or stabs him with a rusty spoon? in jest i speak. Btw a slap is fine over a hit you say? I've seen people slapped so hard they almost do a back flip. if you think there is a difference then you never had been slapped by my father. both the same in my eyes. both are wrong.
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The difference between a slap and a hit is in the force, not the fact it's open palm or not (IMO anyways). And the only "deserve it" is when she's threatening serious force (i.e. flipping out and holding a knife). Other than that it's easy enough to grab their wrists and bam... they cant hit you (yes this is assuming he's stronger than her... but lets face it most women arent kickboxers).
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My first post was calm and laid out my thoughts, showing what I think to be the flaws in various other opinions. I increased the force of my posts hoping that people might actually read them... Unfortunately the second post:
...seem to indicate that posting probably reaches only a very small number of those who add to the thread.
I do find it interesting that me calling people's positions stupid gets more reaction than others advocating premeditated assault. How does that work?
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Oh no, I read your post. You, however didnt take the time to read mine. It involves witnessing it. Something like that, you could tell if she enjoyed it or if it was abuse. If it was seeing only the effects (i.e. blackeye) it is your duty as a friend to get involved through talking to both sides and getting cops involved if required.
Just because people dont agree with your post doesn't mean they didnt read it or they are too stupid to..