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Originally Posted by kutulu
I understand that you want to get out of there but why should you be the one sacfificing right now? By packing, it should mean packing her stuff. Revenge may be shallow but it might make you feel better. When she comes home, all of her stuff should be on the lawn, with CHEATER spray painted across it. SHE fucked things up, she should be the one moving out.
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Don't think spray painting CHEATER on her stuff and laying it out on the lawn is the thing to do, but I definitely agree that she should be on her way out ASAP, not you. She instigated this and if she found another guy, then she can also find herself another place to live.
I'm really sorry this happened to you and I applaud your emotional fortitude. Going to work the next morning must've been simply brutal. Hang in there, Ben, you're the better person here. Please remember that. We're all here for you.