I'm wondering if it's even necessary to tell anyone other than your gf at this point? Seems like she'd be the most important one who needs to know. My bf and I talked about where we were on the "continuum" about 4 months after we started dating, and I think we were the only people either of us had ever told that to. Neither of us is entirely straight, though we're both more on the hetero side.
I felt so relieved once I finally told him, and also honored that he told me about himself, too. Made me feel much more normal and at ease with my inclinations.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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