Having been in a relationship that involved hitting (her hitting me) I would like to point out that if she did start hitting him first that it is entirely possible that he hit her back to try to get her to stop. When I was in this relationship there was nothing I could do to stop this woman hitting me, so eventually I told her that if she hit me again that I'd hit her back (this was during an argument). She did hit me and I pushed her away from me and she fell over a couch, bruising her face.
Not to say that I condone hitting women, but there are two sides to every story.
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