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Sorry about the kick in the guts man. When my world dropped out I took a few days to do it, but I made sure I told my boss what I was going through on the hush-hush so if my reactions were a bit off he'd cut me some slack. When I was more comfortable with the reality of my separation (after 24 years of marriage and 4 kids I might add) I got my immediate co-workers together at break and told them short and sweet, and asked them for room as well for the same reasons. I thought that was important, because being with these particular people for the heart of your day means that if you don't cover it all up you give yourself a little room for being naturally upset, and they give you a little room because you need it. Also as has been said and resaid get some solid definition about your property and your responsibilities, and listen to your chosen professional rep if you indeed go that route. And a bit of professional emotional counceling is ok, not to be sneered at, well worth the consideration. Good luck and just keep getting up in the morning.
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And now to disengage the clutch of the forebrain ... 
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