Ben.. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I think what Mal said was spot on!
Take care of yourself. The important thing is you. Your problems will still be there.
You can deal later. Just make sure you are emotionally stable as a person can get in this situation. Then try and deal with it best you can. If it gets to be to much. Just take a step back. Do something for yourself. Get away and sort things out.
You have a lot to deal with. So stay strong, but don't be afraid to cry. The bitterness and anger will be there for a while. Find a way to cope with all the emotions. And for gods sake.. don't keep them bottled up. That's what friends and family are there for. I know it is little consolation. But you are a great person! Hugs to you man.. we as a group, are here if you need someone!
Best of luck!
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