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simonrex22 · 04-15-2005, 09:34 AM

I may not be a woman, but i think i have some good suggestions. Im not sure if this is what you are doing, but buying a gift and expecting her to get horny when she opens it and have sex is not going to work. In the case of lingerie, you give it to her and maybe tell her or even write on a card, "Surprise me someday". Hopefully your next B-day she'll come out of the bathroom and she'll be wearing it. If not, maybe she's too uncomfortable wearing it. With a toy, you give it to her on her birthday or some other special day, and say "Maybe someday we can experiment with this." Then, put it on your night table and surprise her with it one night while you already started foreplay.

As for initiating romantic sex, the rolling movie credits are the best time. Rent a romance movie, something with a lot of lust. Im sure you'll both be in the mood by the time its over. But let the movie finish, women's emotions run rampant when they see that happy ending. Leave the lights out and cuddle up with her. Take it slow. Rubbing a womans arms is a great show of affection. Then test her to see if she is in the mood. A gentle rub on her stomach or on her leg, and her body language will tell you if she is in the mood. If she gives you the "green light" then you go from there. The best way is to take it slow and be romantic. then things move on from there. Im not sure how you go about it, but i could spend two hours with foreplay before any clothes are removed. It just builds up anticipation and makes the whole experience better.

here is a little something i just learned. Might be good for afterwards. After climax, men and women both have different chemicals that activate in their brain. With men, it is Tryptophan. this is a sedative and makes us wanna sleep. with women, i forget the name of the chemical but it sends them into a heavy emotional state. they need to be taken care of. the best thing to do is to put your arm around her and fall asleep. telling her you love her is good too. i garauntee it will make her more secure and she will be in a really good mood the next day.

The best thing i can tell you is to be spontaneous. dont try to force it when you are horny. And start slow. Trying to get it right away will end in failure.

04-15-2005, 09:34 AM	#11 (permalink)
simonrex22 Insane	I may not be a woman, but i think i have some good suggestions. Im not sure if this is what you are doing, but buying a gift and expecting her to get horny when she opens it and have sex is not going to work. In the case of lingerie, you give it to her and maybe tell her or even write on a card, "Surprise me someday". Hopefully your next B-day she'll come out of the bathroom and she'll be wearing it. If not, maybe she's too uncomfortable wearing it. With a toy, you give it to her on her birthday or some other special day, and say "Maybe someday we can experiment with this." Then, put it on your night table and surprise her with it one night while you already started foreplay. As for initiating romantic sex, the rolling movie credits are the best time. Rent a romance movie, something with a lot of lust. Im sure you'll both be in the mood by the time its over. But let the movie finish, women's emotions run rampant when they see that happy ending. Leave the lights out and cuddle up with her. Take it slow. Rubbing a womans arms is a great show of affection. Then test her to see if she is in the mood. A gentle rub on her stomach or on her leg, and her body language will tell you if she is in the mood. If she gives you the "green light" then you go from there. The best way is to take it slow and be romantic. then things move on from there. Im not sure how you go about it, but i could spend two hours with foreplay before any clothes are removed. It just builds up anticipation and makes the whole experience better. here is a little something i just learned. Might be good for afterwards. After climax, men and women both have different chemicals that activate in their brain. With men, it is Tryptophan. this is a sedative and makes us wanna sleep. with women, i forget the name of the chemical but it sends them into a heavy emotional state. they need to be taken care of. the best thing to do is to put your arm around her and fall asleep. telling her you love her is good too. i garauntee it will make her more secure and she will be in a really good mood the next day. The best thing i can tell you is to be spontaneous. dont try to force it when you are horny. And start slow. Trying to get it right away will end in failure.