How old are you guys anyway? Is it possible that you were her only boyfriend since grade school? Just curious if age plays a part in this, and that it may have been unrealistic to expect that she would want to be with you for her ENTIRE life. People gotta get out and experience life to understand what we want in life. That can lead to giving her an understanding of how much and why she appreciates you. That doesn't excuse her from cheating, because if that was the case, she should have talked to you first about it, but it may help explain why it happened.
If you love her, let her free, if she loves you, she will come back. Make sure its a long time so you both can figure out how you really feel about this whole situation. Think YEARS....
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