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BigBen, you might try beginning the conversation with your own feelings, such as "I feel uncomfortable about... or I sense that there is tension about..." and ask to clear the air with her in a nonconfronting way. You deserve the truth and should expect honesty on her part. Why not ask each other if your marriage is well, or has something caused a drift in direction?
If she is perfectly honest about any complaint she has about the marriage, the two of you can choose to work on it. I truly hope that you have caught this at the "thinking about it" stage and that the two of you are willing to make adjustments and recommit to each other.
Pollyanna
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