KMA-628

I feel your pain man, I am going through pretty much the same exact thing right now.

First, she asks for a divorce citing all the usual reasons.

Then, I find out there is a guy on the side that she met playing online games.

The math was too close, it was going on when we were together, hence the divorce request.

She lied about everything until I showed her all of the evidence--then it became "none of my business".

Yep, I have a pretty good idea of the range of emotions you are going through. I'd hit the wall, but it won't do any good. It's hard when you don't have an outlet for the feelings/emotions/anger/etc.

Do you have any kids? They are the ones I worry most about.

Edit: The clencher for me was the lying. If there is nothing going on, she wouldn't lie about it.

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