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Similar situation happened to me with my last girlfriend. She suddenly started hanging out with a guy for "school projects" but wouldn't tell me who he was. Then she started checking her answering machine only while I was in another room. Finally she stopped wanting anything to do with me physically. I finally confronted her and she admitted that she was dumping me for this guy. When asked why she just didn't tell me, she said she didn't know.
If she is being evasive with her answers, I think you need to confront her on the issue and find out what is really going on. If she still insists that it is nothing, let her know that you are not comfortable with her friendship and request that it end. My personal feeling is that if she truly values her marriage to you, she will be willing to drop this guy since it is causing a problem in your relationship. This is not to say that she should never be able to have her own friends, including males.
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